As a voice and public speaking coach, I’m deeply troubled by the content of Tate’s messaging. His views on women are not only regressive—they’re dangerous.

He’s referred to women as property, shared graphic fantasies of violence, and routinely promotes misogyny, racism, and antisemitism under the guise of empowerment.

And yet, people listen.

This blog isn’t about excusing or platforming Tate’s rhetoric. It’s about asking a difficult, but important question:

Why does his voice command so much attention—and what can we learn from understanding it?

People often mistake the loudest voice in the room for the most competent.

The fast-talker, the interrupter, the individual who fills the silence before anyone else has the chance, these behaviours have, somehow, become shorthand for authority.

Ever frozen when asked a question you weren’t prepared for?

You’re not alone.

Whether it's a high-stakes meeting, investor Q&A, or a team huddle gone awry, impromptu speaking can resemble stepping onto a stage without a script. But what if we told you the key to handling these moments lies in jazz?

Ever been told your voice sounds harsh—even when you’re just being direct? Or maybe people assume you’re aggressive when you’re simply speaking with confidence?

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many professionals, especially in leadership roles, struggle with this. The way we sound can shape how others perceive us just as much as what we actually say. And if your tone feels too sharp, it can create unnecessary tension, resistance, and even undermine your authority.